Human nature is a profound state that often comes under fire by nurturing controls. Excessive parental controls have long histories of setting evolving offspring up to fail by enabling degradation. Young males are especially emasculated by over nurturing mothers and occasionally by enabling fathers. Young females are usually compromised by fathers putting them on a pedestal. All of the above malfeasances are serious downers for evolving young people who require clear space to fledge and fly onward when the timing is right. Does it make uncommon common sense? If it does pass it on to others!